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Originally Posted by Macd123
You lost me in the first paragraph - you’re boyfriend is medicated or your other friend is medicated? This whole thing sounds like a trainwreck is about to happen. Trust is big in a relationship (so I hear) and there ain’t none here. That said I’m not one to openly condemn polygamous relationships because I’m just enlightened and modern. You are going to have to decide on your road to happiness - your secret makes me wonder if anybody can rely on you. Good luck
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Originally Posted by disparaissant
I haven't any secrets either, have told both what I'm doing and why. Maybe I don't have anything to lose.
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Don’t you think that dating two men - especially if one is your boyglfriend going to cause some emotional turmoil? Somebody is going to get hurt - not being judgmental this is just human nature. Your boyfriend doesn’t sound like the type that would be agreeable to such an arrangement. As for his medication - it sounds like his usage is driving a wedge between you two, therefore it’s a problem.