Gwydion, I think sexual abuse between siblings is difficult...to say the least. I don't really have any answers for you. Tonight has been a tough night for me and dealing with my own abuse. I am writing because I want you to know I read your post, I care about you and you are not alone in your struggles. I wish I had some answers...please hang in there.

One more thing. Sometimes it is not about reclaiming more memories, but it is how we deal with the memories we already have...