I dont know if this topic belongs here but ya

Me and ex-girl broke up 3 months ago. She has low-self esteem depression. I plan on talking to her once a month. Giving her space and time.

Last month she asked me to be her friend and come to her bday party, I said I couldn't because I want to be more than friends. She said would like to but she doesn't like herself and can't get over the insensitive jokes I made about her body. I said I was sorry but she couldn't forgive.

I meet up with her last week to try to cheer her up, she didn't leave her bed for a week. We catch up, share some old memories and jokes. She just can't seem to forgive me for a few bad comments/jokes I made about her body. I said I was sorry she can't get past it. she put me in a group of people that she didn't expect to hurt her. Beyond on that, we had a great relationship, we were best friends. She said she misses me, talking and hang out but at the same time, she wants me to move on and find someone else. I am 6 years older than her. She starts therapy this week or the next.

I'm confused, any advice? Anything I can do to support her?