That's a good point. I suspect that's what happened with me today. I e-mailed T after session about feeling disconnected and not sensing the caring from him, and he said he was really surprised I was feeling that way. So it may have been a case where he thought he knew what I needed and what I was feeling, but it wasn't accurate. Probably a good conversation for next session... It might just take more time before we're better able to read each other (it's only been 4.5 months, somehow).