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Originally Posted by growlycat
I am so sorry this happened to you. I don’t know if this helps but he must care about you very very much to freak out on boundary issues. Maybe he scared himself at how casual he has been with you. My first instinct is that he has feelings for you but is not managing them well Maybe he doesn’t trust himself to stay professional. He is not handling this well and I hope he seeks supervision
It would hurt me too to hear those words. Who knows I might be heading towards a boundary crackdown myself. If there is anything pc people can do just reach out.
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He claims he does not have supervision about stuff with clients...but I hardly believe a word of his anymore. I am wonder how much stuff he has lied about or made up to me. He still has every intention of staying the same, for now, was super funny and chummy in session and still wants to text with me which we do every week but I just don't know. All I see is lies now. Fake fake fake.
And for the other poster...as I just saw your post... no interest in therapy again ever and if many years from now I did, I'd pick a woman because I can't connect to them and I would not be stuck in this attachment hell