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Originally Posted by ruby2011
It's like she doesn't even care how I'm doing or how I've been. Yet when a coworker (J) went in there 6 months after quitting, my supervisor was sooo happy to see her. She asked J how she's been and stuff like that. Then they caught up with each other. Fvck that. Oh well, at least my former coworkers caught up with me. I will treat people better than that.
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BIG DIFFERENCE...your co worker QUIT. You were FIRED. And you were fired for inappropriate behavior towards the person you think should be giving you attention.
She did not treat you poorly. She treated you like someone who does NOT need to be encouraged to continue behave badly. She did not socialize with you because she did not want to encourage you to continue your inappropriate behavior.
You are still deflecting the blame from you to her. She is not to blame. She has behaved in a professional manner. Just because she chose not to socialize with you does not make her a bad person or a mean person.
This will continue to happen if you cannot stretch yourself to understand that you did this to yourself. And stop blaming her for your actions.
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