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Originally Posted by growlycat
I am so sorry this happened to you. I don’t know if this helps but he must care about you very very much to freak out on boundary issues. Maybe he scared himself at how casual he has been with you. My first instinct is that he has feelings for you but is not managing them well Maybe he doesn’t trust himself to stay professional. He is not handling this well and I hope he seeks supervision .
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I'm thinking something like this, too. It reminds me a bit of how my marriage counselor got all "BOUNDARIES" with me recently. Like maybe he suddenly realized how relaxed he'd been with them and was like, "Oh, ****." I feel like it's a recurring pattern that people mention on here, where a T gets too close, too relaxed, then suddenly realizes it and way overcorrects in the opposite direction (my ex-T basically admitted to doing that with me--getting too close then needing to pull back). So...I know this probably isn't going to help, but please try to consider that this is about him, not you.