I'm going through issues with my wife.... one minute it's good next minute we talk about divorce.... one problem I've always had was being insecure... I would always look through her phone.... this only hurts you in the end.... your going to drive yourself nuts man... you have to realize that you can't control how she feels... just be yourself... I know easier said then done but if it was meant to be it will be and if it isn't it will show.... just keep in your head you can't control how she feels... you have to let a certain part of careing go... in trying to do the same.. it's hard but like I said all this insecurities are going to eat you alive