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Old Jan 31, 2018, 01:51 AM
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Carmina Carmina is offline
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Originally Posted by Rose76 View Post
Your wife has no business messaging or visiting the old boyfriend. Whether or not those activities led to romantic or sexual activity is beside the point. It's totally inappropriate for married persons to be contacting old boyfriends or old girlfriends.
Don't agree - there is no reason why people can't stay friends with exes, I am friends with my ex wife still and several previous partners, we are all adults about it and can maintain our boundaries perfectly well. If partners are too insecure to handle that, that's something they both need to work on, as adults. Not by imposing restrictions, playing games or snooping on each other.