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Old Jan 24, 2008, 01:21 AM
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you know, bean, i wonder if your t's scared of the attachment? not scared of you, but just scared in general. some t's really seem to give out that line a lot and yours lays it on particuarly thick. whereas i have had a t that flat out said to me how angry she was that my family would hurt me the way they did, and how she wished she could just take me home and be my mom because she's be a far better one. We both already know that can never happen in a million years, but it made me feel better about myself. that t had a great understanding of who she is and her boundaries - so that she could be open about that comment. Bean, i wonder if that might be a conversation for you - that you can see why she is so strick about repeating the boundary and maintaining an almost (from my own perspective) sterile environment. that way, you both might get your needs met around this issue and be able to move forward in therapy?
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