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Old Jan 31, 2018, 05:02 AM
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Originally Posted by Mouse_62 View Post
Painful. I don't know your therapy story. As to whether the guy has led you along. Or friendliness has mistaken for more.
It's possible to be cared about and still refuse friendship. Especially in this situation.
If his inconsistent then not much point continuing with him.
If it's, transference, then this is just part of the work.
As I say. I've only read your words. Transference can blur our reality.
For sure lead me along, many people who I've told things to have said he has crossed boundaries and been unethical. Heck, after all this crap he still wants to casually text with me

I don't know how to not go anymore, how do you just stop when its the only support you really have and you spent months building trust? Although to be fair, that's gone downhill now. Not sure how much I can trust anymore. Still unsure what to do from here but I know I've had 1 hour of sleep so far and that's it. Gonna be super fun for work in the am
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LonesomeTonight, SalingerEsme