Yoyr ex-boss knows that showing interest in a person who behaved WRONGLY toward her could only ending that behavior to start up again & she deakt with your bad behavior once, she doesnt want to take any chance that interfacing with you could encourage this bad behavior again luke your constantly returning to the food place just to see her. No one understands why your mind is working the way it does on tbis & the FACT that you are NOT taking responsibility fir being the one that caused your OWN PROBLEMS is a good indication why it was wise that she didn't engage with you personally when you came to get food.

You have a serious problem NOT takibg responsibility for your own behaviors & dont seem to grasp tbe concept that YOUR OWN behaviors cause people to set boundaries to keep yiyr bad behaviors out of their lives.

Your behaviors have consequences. You seem unwilling to learn to understand this. I understand that people with Aspergers tend to think in this way as my exHusband ALWAYS blamed everyone else for what his actions caused & I know another lady on the soecteum that does the same thing. It is not a thinkibg that is acceptable in society. Takibg responsibility for ine's own behaviors & their consequences is the responsible way to deal with one's behaviors.

If you don't learn to do this in the future, even miving on will be filled with problems as it seems you learned NOTHING from this experience to grow from.

This would be goid therapy work for you.