My bf said a while ago, when I said I'm dating someone else, "Then I should be able to as well"....and I said yes. So it isn't like he wants me to do that, of course, but he isn't holding me back from what I'm doing. He's confusing. He'll say in the past as well, "fine, date other men", or "go ahead and see how long that lasts before you come back to me".... He's also said I've built up his self confidence and that he can find another woman. These things don't make me feel special or loved. I'm going to give this time, I can spend time when I'm ready with this man I've met a few months back. And if lose my boyfriend by being honest with him, I'll live with it.