T will as questions like how is work, how is hubby, how are the kids, etc. I will either give her quick answer if that if appropriate will elaborate if there are issues. When she asks how I am doing or if there is anything I want to bring up I will. There have been times I, in the beginning, will bring up the topic if itis important. Usually I will tell her I have sonething important.

EMDR T on the other always wants me to lead the entire appointment which is a struggle.