So I never told h I saw t 4 weeks ago. I haven't told him yet that I'm going today after work. T calls that 'feminine wiles' but it feels like lying to me. I'm going to tell him about going today. I mean I know I'm not going to be able to once we start paying the hospital bills, so I want to go one more time before those bills start rolling in. We'll be paying hopefully a maximum of $5400.00 assuming everything is covered. I'll appeal whatever I have to of course. But until it's paid off, I won't be seeing t. Will work w hospital on a payment plan or something. Wish me luck telling h I'm going today...