Please do not tell me to have "no contact" with my ex-husband, a narcissist. I am doing well, every so often (not frequently) I send a short email (pleasant one) to my ex. He cannot regulate himself at all from his desires, overeating is one, curiousity is another Yet he Never replies to my emails. He does not want to show off to me. He knows my daughter(from another marriage) is getting married but there is no way he could know when and he does not try to find out.

Why such self-control and consistency With Me? We have been apart for two years. Thanks.