Before my t moved out of state at the end of my first year seeing her, I crocheted a doily and starched it into a bowl and gave it to her as a going-away present. She acted like she loved it.

Then 3-something years later she moved back and I started seeing her in person again, and at my 2nd appt after she came back she had her still being organized sand play shelves up again and there was the bowl I made on one of the shelves. I got upset, because I'd made it for her not other clients. I told her I was upset and we talked about it, she apologized for it being there, I said well I did give it to you I can't tell you what to do w it and stuff but she again apologized and said she should have been more sensitive about it, that it wasn't going to stay there she was still unpacking. I haven't given her anything I've made since then, except the occasional poem.