I have gotten an apology out right, at least once. I have gotten several acknowledgements of seeing how I could feel some way based on what she did. I've gotten a few, yes, I missed that.

I'm good with these most the time. There was one time (and only one) that I took the nonverbal interaction to be one where she would not own her portion of stuff. That was fairly early on and it might have just been my perception - where I was at the time as I was in a "rebellious" mindset.