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Originally Posted by Talthybius
That doesn't mean anything. The only sense in which you can 'accept´ they are no longer part of your life is to not take action to force them back into your life when they don't want to.
Besides that, it is all subconscious. There is no decision. The feelings, the memories, they are either there in your mind, or not.
It is not even about being sad. Thinking about them can make you feel happy rather than sad.
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Why would i force someone back into my life when they dont wan to be? If they dont care enough to stay then why should i care enough to hold on to them? **** them. I don’t need them in my life anyways to make me happy. Also why would i have to cope in the first place? Unless im dependent on them, i shouldn’t care if they’re gone or not.