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Old Jan 31, 2018, 07:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Wonderfalls View Post
I probably sound heartless but I think a therapist should be able to decorate her office the way she wants. I wouldn't want to hang art that I thought wasn't top-rate and to my own taste. The chances of your clients being professional painters who also paint in the style and medium that you like are pretty nil. I think you should be able to give small gifts but you shouldn't question what happens to them, no matter how much your therapist loves you.
I don’t think that you sound heartless. It’s actually quite logical. I am a very logical thinker but with therapy I am learning to allow myself to feel more emotions, even if they seem illogical. The picture that I gave her was actually a seascape photo. I know she enjoyed it because she displayed it for several years. It just seems odd that suddenly she is not. Of course it is hers to do what she wants with. I certainly don’t want it back. Logically I get it.. but emotionally it felt a little hurtful. Anyways.. my contribution to this thread. : )
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