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Originally Posted by ArtieSwimsOn
I can see how I am separating myself from you. Slowly. But it's happening. We even talked about that a little bit, now that I remember. You said something about individuating myself from you or something like that.
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I think this is why there is a need for a period of termination/transition when people have certain types of connections/attachments in this process. I think there needs to be that period of time of individuating, finding the loving separation as someone explained it to me once. I think of this as the "going away to college" years.