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Originally Posted by confused_77
the thing is ideally I dont want bounderies. I want to be assured its ok to write. as explained before I did mention it many many times in emails to her even
in an similar way to what you suggested but always explain that she needs to bring it up in a session if it's not OK as i am too embarrassed about it. she never does so technically when i ask her 'bring it up if it's not OK' and she doesn't it implies she is ok. but then she knows how much i stress over it so why not say 'its ok'
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Because she might not actually know how much it stresses you if you never bring it up in person. So many times things get missed or miss-understood in emails. She might have skimmed over that part because she got distracted or focused more on other parts that she considered more important.