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Old Feb 01, 2018, 01:47 PM
maybeblue maybeblue is offline
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Originally Posted by confused_77 View Post
the thing is ideally I dont want bounderies. I want to be assured its ok to write. as explained before I did mention it many many times in emails to her even
in an similar way to what you suggested but always explain that she needs to bring it up in a session if it's not OK as i am too embarrassed about it. she never does so technically when i ask her 'bring it up if it's not OK' and she doesn't it implies she is ok. but then she knows how much i stress over it so why not say 'its ok'
Because she might not actually know how much it stresses you if you never bring it up in person. So many times things get missed or miss-understood in emails. She might have skimmed over that part because she got distracted or focused more on other parts that she considered more important.
Thanks for this!
LonesomeTonight