How would you feel if your t suggested all of your problems were because of choices you had made.
I find intimacy impossible and t said tonight but this is a choice. It’s not a choice I am making, it’s just what I need to do!
It makes me so mad when I hear therapists suggesting that someone has a choice in their misery. Sometimes they do but a lot of the time clients do the best the can in impossible situations.
What do you think?