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Originally Posted by confused_77
i doubt she realises. Its an ongoing theme in emails! but i know that things can be misunderstood when put in writing. I even wrote to her the reason why i dont want to bring it up myself. i am worried she will restrict emails if we start talking about them. but at the same time if I bounderies and restrictions do need to be put in place i want it to come from. her.. i dont want them but will accept if it's a necessity. does that make sense?
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Yes it does. I guess you have to decide which will make you more anxious or upset...to just keep going as you have been with the worry that she might possibly take email away sometime in the future, or to talk to her and have her possibly put limits on it now.
I'm a yank the bandage off as quickly as possible type person. So I usually choose to find out if I'm going to get hurt now rather than waiting and worrying about possible hurt coming. And there is always the possibility that she will say "the emails are fine."