My boys weren’t interested in anything but video games, looking at youtube videos. They group chatted and played with their friends, all of them in their own houses, on the video game headsets. Even when friends came over, they played video games.

I’d suggest they do outside playing, but they didn’t like it, I didn’t force them. So I let them be total video addicts...just like their dad.

But, I took them to music lessons and they excelled in music. I’m so glad I forced them, and they later thanked me.

I always wanted to take them to Home Depot to do those projects like build a bird house. But they would laugh at me and refuse!

I’ve only had boys, no girls. We bond and they talk to me about their issues. You just have to spend time with them and be open to listening when they want to talk.