Gambling is an extremely hard addiction to live with. I've known two compulsive gamblers in my life. They will bleed others anyway they can to maximize their ability to gamble. That explains his stinginess. I'm glad you recognize that his addictions will come first. This is why I've said before that he won't find too many takers, among women, for what he offers. This is why he has been single and available. Few women will stay with a man like that. But he's all yours, if you want him. I'ld pass.