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Originally Posted by MoxieDoxie
I had the same issues with my ex-T. Severe parental transference and if he was being human and had a bad day and was more going through the motions in therapy then I turned it onto myself thinking I was bad or did something wrong or was no longer "special" to him.
I am in therapy with a new therapist who is about 15 years younger than me so I am hoping that type of transference does not happen again. It was so painful.
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I am working with a therapist who is 14-15 years younger than me. Unfortunately the transference is still there. Transference is hard enough without the conflict of the therapist being younger than I am. It messes with me sometimes. Despite the difficulty with this I stick with her because she is a good therapist.