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Old Feb 02, 2018, 10:10 AM
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Originally Posted by Runcible Spoon View Post
Yeah, it doesn't surprise me that it's not the kind of thing you would like to hear from a therapist. I guess that's why it's good that there are such a variety out there. Lots of different people have lots of different needs and expectations.
I'm glad you found some who were willing to stay back.
(Actually I suspect my T would do that too if the client required it - he seems pretty adaptable from what I have seen of him).
What I am trying to say is that I don't see the response as being open, honest, vulnerable etc.
Granted, I don't want that from a therapist - but my point is that the response you got would not be open, honest, vulnerable, etc to me.
To me it reads like obfuscating gobbly gook.
That is why I have to tell those people to just sit there and shut up. Because I can't decipher what the hell they are talking about.
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