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Old Feb 02, 2018, 07:59 PM
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Originally Posted by wildflowerchild25 View Post
I don’t think fairies was implying your trauma was the same, just that she understands how trauma can affect a person through their life.

I’m still not ready to talk About my husband’s death in too much detail. It’s been three years almost. If you think you’re ready to say something then do. Whatever it was, it most certainly won’t just go away, esp. if you’re having flashbacks.
Flashbacks on this are all new, but I also never had any before December two years ago when I recognized that my ex's behaviors were abuse and not just deserved. I've had them from other parts of my childhood sense, but never would have thought this could come out. I knew it happened. I didn't stop it. It happened over and over. No adults knew.