What she said could not be misinterpreted. Funny thing is I don’t think she was trying to insult me. I think she’s just that clueless. Sometimes when I am depressed I don’t feel like hanging out with friends and family so if I want to go out to a restaurant movie and I don’t feel like socializing I’ll do so by myself. I have talked to her about this a lot lately, including the possibility of traveling by myself. Today she mentioned not liking a restaurant Because she walked in there for a gift card and they thought she was going to be dining in by herself. She said do I look like that type of person. I just sat there and stared at her. I did not even know what to say .... and yes this has been going on for years it’s not just something new. I am sorry you’re going through something similar bobcat. Change is difficult.