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Originally Posted by Unhinged88
It might feel like a spiral. But I think its more growing. Now that you've come terms, so to speak, with what happened, you can start fitting pieces of the puzzle together about your past and today. When I realized what had happened to me wasnt right, it took 16 years almost, I decided not to be a victim but a survivor so that maybe I can be better because of it. In some way. And granted, I haven't yet told my family, I have told 1 person (in person) and that is a start.
It will be ok! Its not ok now.
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I've dealt with this for 35 years. That's how long ago. I wanted to die with having let it go or getting it out of my head or not telling anyone or Something. If 99f hadn't put that reply mentioning her abuse, I don't know that I'd ever have told anyone. It pi--ed me off because it happened to her and that she seemed to know what I was talking about. I apologize for getting angry, and also thank you 99f for luring it out of me