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Originally Posted by justafriend306
Perhaps she feels obligated for some reason. Perhaps the reason might be that this is what people do (it is what I was taught to do). Perhaps she is doing this out of social etiquette or acknowledgement. You mention there having been resentment? Were you offering her gas money or some other way of reciprocating the favour? This is what is expected.
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I offered in the past but she always declined. That’s why I don’t accept anymore. Don’t want her to feel used even though she doesn’t need to offer. I feel like when she does offer now, she is expecting me to decline her request and wouldn’t be happy if I took her up on it.