Wow, that comment of hers sounds really judgmental, both of you and of anyone who eats (or goes wherever) alone! And I've certainly gone to movies by myself and [gasp] earlier this week went to a rock concert by myself! (And I'm married with a kid.) It's called being independent... I think you need to find a different T who respects who you are and that doesn't seem to expect you to make all the same choices she would...