That, to me, does not describe lack of attachment to the therapist, more a lack of interest in therapy and investigation. I felt all those things intensely (sometimes extremely) and yet the desires were not attached to the T, much more to my interest in resolving my issues and introspection. And to the fun of the exploration. I never felt attached to my first T (more the opposite, quite repulsed, especially in the end) and I think mildly, quite healthily attached to the second T. But my interest and motivation to tell them about myself and to go to sessions were very high. I think, for me, because I was primarily interested in myself.