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Old Feb 03, 2018, 10:50 PM
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My therapist and I are both men (and evidently I'm one of very few men answering this poll), but it's not really a factor for me in choosing someone. I've had both male and female therapists in the past who were terrible and who were great, and I don't think the things I value in a clinician (empathy, intellect, insight, etc) are at all dependent on gender. I can definitely understand others having a gender preference, though.

I think the fact that my therapist and I are both queer men has more of an impact than just the fact that he's a man. There's a downside since it makes it more likely that our social circles will overlap, but it also means we have many more cultural reference points in common.
Thanks for this!
growlycat, LonesomeTonight