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Don't ever think that you are a disappointment...please. Those were words from an unhappy and insensitive woman. When you look in the mirror smile at yourself for how far you have come. Look at the life you are and have been leading - yes there are potholes to bump over and hurdles that you have overcome. You have come out of all of it with a some scratches and dings but my oh my.....the beautiful children you raised and those gorgeous grandchildren (mine included - ). You make a difference in so many lives....much so in mine. That to me is not a disappointment but a joy. You are a joy to know and I am very lucky to have you in my life too.

I know that I am always here for you and I have a strong feeling that so many here are here for you too. I hope that you lean on us for anything ok?

It is ok to be sad...gosh it breaks my heart to think of you sad- but through those tears I know that you will find the strength that you have inside you to conquer whatever comes your way.



Heather