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Originally Posted by possum220
I have been seeing my current P'doc who also does therapy for over 10 years. I haven't moved very far in psychological terms. This last year has been a rough one and I have been inpatient 3 times.
Last time I saw him we spoke about wasting each other time. I asked him if I was wasting his time and he said it was more about wasting my time. There are times when I wonder that he is more of a 'paid' friend. I don't have people in my life that will listen. (Apart from here).
So I am wondering if it's time to stop.
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You need a fresh pair of eyes or shall I say ears. Someone with a different modality. I say stop therapy and detox from it for a few months and then start to look for a new therapist.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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