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Originally Posted by confused_77
In theroy i would love for someone to share as much with me as i share with her...does that make sense?
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That for me was part of the inherent toxicity of therapy. Everyone wants the reciprocity you mention, but therapy both inflames that need + completely blocks it. That is nuts. So if you are spilling your guts in endless emails, and getting nothing much back or getting ambiguity, then you have a dynamic that starts to look abusive and withholding in my view.