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Old Jan 10, 2005, 02:21 PM
chloepie chloepie is offline
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I had written a while ago about my boyfriend and I breaking up. Good news is we got back together, the bad news is that I'm not sure what to do next. He is seeking counseling for his issues, and I know one of his big issues is opening up. He has a problem opening up to me, and especially other people. He wants to make friends, but how can you make friends if you're afraid to give some of yourself to the relationship. He has built this huge wall around him, letting it down every now and then for me, but all in all, he's just scared to let me in.

It's hard for me, because I feel I have opened myself up to him, and now I have to deal with his indecision of us and his difficulty showing me he cares.

Is this something that can truly be fixed, or should I just get out now before I get involved again....(I know this is a decision I need to make for myself...if I could just get some insight from others, I would appreciate it)