ive decided to move on and forget about everything now is the time.....i didnt meet with her to chat and hear her side as if im honest i dont want to hear it ....surprisingly me and my partner are in a real good place he is making more effort with me and the children spending lots of time with us as a family and its lovely he would of rather go to work but instead he is finally appreciating what he has and what he could of lost!!! i will cross paths with her one day as its a small town and she goes to the same school as me so its only a matter of time but for now i will continue to hold my head up high and not let this bring me down because i am the one that has done nothing wrong!! she can say all the crap she likes about my bf she obvs isnt happy with her hubby still but its made clear she is no longer welcome back in our lives ! she can go rot for all i care..