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Originally Posted by healingme4me
I think it's still better to tell closer to the date of birth than delayed. Even at 6. He must know there's a due date? I'm envisioning more of a feeling of being left out of the loop regardless of the fact the visitation is a couple of weeks out.
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I had prepared the following a week or so ago. I just now saw it didnt post. At any rate, his mom ended up agreeing to wait and that i tell him as they pull up at the meeting spot; unless he asks, which he never did. Hers the paet that didnt make it before:
Thank you for the advice. Its kinda a bummer because i totally get what you are saying but then i think, "if i tell him sooner than later, he'll feel left out then as well because he will not be able to be there (at least not until the first wknd in feb)." He told me himself back at the first of the month when he came back that it could be any day now." The thing is we stay busy and are close, so he doesnt ask about anything in that regard, outside of "our" life.