It’s done. I agreed to have a civilized conversation with the father, a do over of the conversation, and apologize to her mother. This is not bothering me at all. I don’t give a damn about her petty anger about disrespect. Nothing about me was unreasonable except for my tone which was too defensive. I apparently almost made her mother faint (?!).

This is the least of my concerns. I don’t have time for her right now. We are very different people and I’ll just do what she wants so we remain “friends”. Leaving her house on Friday. Glad I bought a ton of granola bars the other day.

I see no value in a fake apology though. I need to be less upfront about things during conflicts. I just generally think it’s good to lay all my cards out on the table. I don’t know.

I will go to a cheap Airbnb or stay with an alum of my school. Or one of the rooms I see will work out. I’m not picky.