First let me say that I am in fact female, and this was never about her being attracted to me or wanting something more out of our friendship.

Maybe I was wrong in asking if I should forgive her. And while I know her mental health probably played a part in her saying what she did, it is still hard for me to move on, because it hurt. I’m not deliberately holding onto it and making her out to be the bad one in this, but I have always seen myself as a good friend, not just to her but other friends also. I am always there for them, will drop anything if they need me.

I don’t think I was wrong in being supportive and being there for her, thats what friends are for. I saw her as one of my best friends....

Honestly I think our friendship maybe waned a bit, even before I got in a relationship. The distance between us hasn’t helped, but also that space made me see how it was a very one sided friendship. It was all take take take and she didn’t offer a lot back. And I guess I’m a little bitter about that too. There were times when she definitely used me. Or tried to at least.

It sucks, because we did have some good times. But for now I can’t keep up the friendship. Maybe that will change in time, but it’s not fair for me to act like we are still really good friends when this is constantly playing on my mind and making me angry/upset. She did also try manipulating me into staying her friend and that’s not cool at all....