There are those also who just can't fit into a site like this (not referring to anyone specifically.) We need to always remember that some ppl can't hear what others say, or at least not correctly, some are not ready for support like this. It is a different venue, to say the least.

I doubt that any member who is truly "finding the opposite" of support has gone unnoticed by the Community Team, unless they only visit the chat rooms and no one has said anything to admin. Still, there are avenues to take to stop any non-supportive behavior by other members. Unfortunately, it does happen. It's because everyone is at a different level of healing, and most are suffering with some type of disorder to begin with.

IMO, if someone feels unsupported, and other members know first hand of this, it's those member's responsibility to gird up the one member and also help admin and community team realize what's happening. Sometimes those other members, also because of their disorder and level of healing, can make the situation worse. It's always unfortunate imo when someone leaves because they feel unsupported, for that is truly unnecessary.

I don't think there is any way to let the membership at large, the daily renewing membership, to know that there will be times they might feel like leaving, and that often it's just a phase (so to speak) and that there's no reason to leave or tell everyone that, as you can always come back to PC and read, and send a PM to a new friend etc.... and that many ppl who do announce they are leaving, do end up back here for support and then have (imo unnecessary) embarrassment for returning.