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Old Feb 05, 2018, 09:27 PM
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Originally Posted by confused_77 View Post
the guilt transference causes to all of us and all it is just such a natural instinct to bond. its so unnatural to be so one sided. with anything and this gives the silent/ non sharing person 'power' because we become vulnerable and they can find the impression of being everything figured out simply by not opening up.
that's so off track.
It felt to me like a massive set up. The opaque behavior and exaggerated caring/interest of the therapist is like a vacuum that sucks out all your pent up needs/feelings, and then the therapist starts blabbering about transference, as if they haven't been manipulating the crap out of you in order to get that response.