My nephew used to do this. Whenever a family friend came to visit, he would follow her around when he's not playing. It was literally 2 steps behind. He would call her name constantly and interrupt adult conversations. When it's time for her to leave, he would chase after her and beg her to stay. And she reinforced bad behavior by being nice to him when he does this. He's in kindergarten now and hasn't done this in 2 years.
I wanna at least be at his current level and stop getting too close to others. If he could change, so could I.
That said, I did reapply for my old job. My supervisor said to follow up the next day because it takes 24 hours to get into her system. She even told me what time to follow up with the assistant manager. But she also said I'm not rehirable. When I was being terminated, however, the DM said they'll consider my application after 90 days, which has since been up. The DM said I'm only not rehirable the first 90 days. Does that mean I have a chance?
I went in to follow up on my application and it was a little busy. I waited for it to slow down before daring to approach anyone about this. While I was waiting, she came to me and b*tched at me not to sit there and stare at them. I wasn't. So I immediately told her I'm following up on my application. She never asked me when I applied and she just said it didn't go through without even checking on it! She pushed it on the assistant manager who'll be there the next day.
Other people have went in there to follow up on their application and if it's busy, they also sat there and waited. And if they happened to be former employees, my supervisor would talk to them at great length about them coming back. I promise I'll change. I just need another chance.
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