[QUOTE=Nammu;6007936]I think at the very least you have to accept some responsibility for your actions. At some point you made the desicion to cheat. It takes two people, the guy did not hypnotize you. How about starting by getting a therapist and talking to them about this and working on yourself. You can ask your husband to go to couples therapy after you've worked a bit with an individual T.[/QUOTE/]

U r right.....I admitted my sin m ashamed of...may b at that point of my life I faced immense loneliness that pushed me into all this just to pass time....what u said
Thats reasonable..I m ready to go for any therapy or counselling to rebuild my relationship with my husband... what kind of threapy I should go for ? Should I go n see a Psychologist / psychiatrist ?