I can completely relate to this!

My counselor actually explained parts layering like this. I think that is what he was talking about, but that's how I understood it.

I can see it in my mind and it helps me to understand it better. It kind of calms the reaction down after I realize what has happened.

The best place to be, if you're not in the driver's seat is definitely the front passenger seat. Worst place it, God help me, the trunk!

ETA: Oh WOW! I just replied to your other thread and mentioned your post here in it. I didn't realize it was you who posted it. It is a awesome analogy!