Just for clarity, by "attachment" I mean an unhealthy relationship with your T, maybe idolization, obsession, infatuation, etc. By "just liking" I mean you have a good relationship with your T but don't desire to have any type of relationship beyond T/client. (Of course those are very broad definitions, attachment is very nuanced in my opinion)
For me, attachment looks like obsession. I can't stop thinking about T. I google T and try to find every piece of information I can because I want to feel like I know T just like a close friend would. I can't stop thinking about T, and I spend tons and tons of my time daydreaming about what it would be like to be friends with T or to date T.
What does attachment look like for you?
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