People seem to leave and then return (nice to see them come back I must admit) what I dont understand and no one has said anything that helps is why bother to say you are leaveing ? I think it would be helpfull is people said they needed time out for their own reasons ..... Then they are leaving the door open for them if they want to return and not upsetting anyone or rather triggering anyone here.

Everyone has the right to leave or stay but this is a support group first and foremost and this should be at the front of EVERYONES minds BEFORE they post anything.

Hugs to all who are staying and hugs to all who are 'taking time out'.